Father and Son

The image of Operation Smile has long been associated with children, young patients born with facial defects such as cleft lips and palates. However, in the journey of restoring smiles over the past three decades, we have also performed surgeries for many teenagers, adults, and especially the elderly. There have been numerous occasions where we performed surgeries for mother and child, grandparent and grandchild, siblings. In August 2023, we successfully treated a father and son from Thua Thien Hue province.

Towards the end of the screening day, when the number of patients had dwindled, our team examined a 6-year-old child who had previously undergone surgery for a cleft lip. Initially, everyone thought that the person bringing the child was his grandfather, as the man had gray hair, a weathered face, sad eyes, and a speech impediment that made him difficult to understand. The doctors asked further about the family’s situation and discovered that this was actually the boy’s father, who had also undergone cleft lip surgery more than ten years ago and still had a hole in his palate, affecting his speech. Upon learning this, the doctors created an additional medical record, provided thorough consultation, and proposed a surgery to complete the repair of the father’s lip. At the moment the family knew they would receive free surgery from these kind and attentive doctors, their eyes, previously filled with insecurity and looking down, lit up with joy, and for the first time, the father and son smiled.

On the day of the surgery, the father took his son into the operating room, waited with his wife, and also awaited his turn for surgery immediately after his son. The couple shared more about their story with us. They met when both were over 40. The wife ran a small store from home, and the husband worked as a mason. It was very difficult for them to have a son. When their son was born with a defect, they loved him dearly. The boy was very attached to his father, following him everywhere and clinging to him. The mother, gentle and soft-spoken, cared for both her husband and son. For them, their son, despite his defect, was the most beloved child, and no matter how hard it was, they would find a way to treat him.

Perhaps because he had experienced the difficulties caused by the defect himself, the father loved his son even more. When the son was brought out to the recovery room, the father held him, crying and saying, “Daddy’s here, daddy loves you, daddy loves you, don’t cry.” The doctors arranged for the father’s surgery to take place right next to his son’s room. His surgery was performed under local anesthesia. As soon as he regained consciousness, he went straight to his son’s room and embraced him.

Parental love does not distinguish between rich and poor, healthy or disabled. The two surgeries that day, to close the deformity in little Thang’s palate and to repair Mr. Phan Trien’s lip scar, helped to heal some of the emotional wounds of a 50-year-old man. After a long life of enduring hardships, he can now look forward to happier days ahead because both he and his son have been healed.

Half a Lifetime

Earlier this May, during a surgery program at E Hospital in Hanoi, we welcomed a special case: Vi Van Tan, an ethnic Tay, from Muong Chieng, Da Bac, Hoa Binh—a highland commune located along the majestic Da River. Like the river of his homeland, Tan has his own story.

Born in 1981 with a facial deformity, Tan has never had surgical intervention until now. Although he visited local healthcare facilities many times, they lacked the necessary equipment for surgery, and Tan couldn’t afford to travel farther to seek treatment. Each visit filled him with hope, only for him to return home disappointed. After many such returns, he resigned himself to “just leaving it as it is,” though fortunately, “since school days, no one has ever bullied him; everyone loves him very much.”

Year after year, Tan worked the fields to support his family, accepting a life of labor with an unhealed lip. But deep inside, there was always something as turbulent as the Da River flowing within him.

He shared that two years ago, the commune’s committee informed him about a surgery program. However, no one followed up. He waited again. Last year, he received information from the committee again and hoped, but once more, there was no further contact. This year, the committee informed him once more, but this time, someone called, giving a clear time and place. He put aside all farm work, packed his bags, and for the first time, traveled to Hanoi with his wife.

When I met him at the hospital, he always wore a mask, removing it only when doctors asked him to for examination. After the check-up, he would immediately put the mask back on and chose to sit in a corner chair while waiting. I felt deep sympathy for him. I understand that there are feelings one can only hope to hide behind a fragile mask, even though he has accepted not hiding them for half his life.

Luckily, he was selected for surgery—after waiting 43 years. For the first time, he temporarily left his homeland’s river, village, and fields, and when he returns, he will have a different life, one where he won’t have to accept or hide anything. The Da River will be more beautiful then.

Vi Van Tan is one of 64 cases selected for safe and free surgery out of 80 cases examined and consulted at E Hospital in Hanoi during the program. The program is sponsored by athletes and organized by various groups through sports activities: Vinschool Gardenia, the “Run for Love” event initiated by Rua Runners, RaceJungle’s series, the Vietnam Ultra Trail community, Vietcombank Runners, Quang Binh Runners, and members of the Smile Runners community.

Story and images shared by Operation Smile Vietnam Development Officer – Tran Tien Lam.

A smile story at Hue surgical program

Ms. Ho Thi Ngu came for the screening of Operation Smile mission in Thua Thien Hue at almost noon, carrying all sorts of things under her arm, along with her two young children. The 6-year-old son has a cleft lip, but his face is still bright. She said that they took the bus from 5:00 a.m., and it took them 6 hours to get here. “This morning, I didn’t have breakfast yet, I just bought a bag of longans to ease my hunger”, she said.

The family come from Huong Hoa district, Quang Tri province, and are Van Kieu people. The father was working far away in Binh Duong for a few days so he couldn’t come back. She quitted her farm work and sent her 8-year-old eldest child to the grandmother to make her way here looking for an opportunity to treat her son’s cleft lip. She confided that she was very scared when she came here. She never dared to let her child have surgery because she was afraid of the risks during the surgery. But when seeing her little son being teased by his friends and called ugly, then the boy just got home crying with his mother, she loves him and feels very sorry for her baby. Seeing the fact that a few other children were as unlucky as her son but had now been cured, while her child had not yet, she made up her mind to take her child to the mission.

Come to Operation Smile’s surgical mission at Hue Odontal Stomatological Hospital, they can receive dedicated examination and advices from doctors. Furthermore, the program also supports accommodation during the waiting days for surgery and travel expenses, so she was more confident taking her child into the operating room. Sitting outside the OR, the mother’s eyes were filled with the complex of worry, joy and hope for her child’ s new smile. And as the biggest reward for a long journey, Dung’s smile was perfectly healed after the surgery. So, from now on, he will be a more confident boy, no longer afraid of being shunned by friends or the society, his life will be much brighter and deserving of a basic thing that all children should have – the SMILE.

Irish Father Adopted A Vietnamese Child Born With Clef Lip And Palate

Dang Son was born with a cleft lip and cleft palate and abandoned outside an orphanage in Hai Duong. His life turned into a new page when a foreign man from Ireland wanted to adopt Son from the moment he first saw the baby in pictures.

John Hennigan, an English teacher at British Vietnamese International School (BVIS) Hanoi, recalled that moment: “It was heart-wrenching when seeing the baby’s incomplete smile. I immediately realized that he was the child I wanted to adopt,”

The first time they met was the day Dang Son was taken to the Vietnam – Cuba Friendship Hospital for his first surgery to repair the cleft lip in the program of Operation Smile Vietnam. Having undergone various surgeries for Dang Son and a complicated four-month process, adopting Dang Son was indeed a journey showing the unfailing determination of John: “In my life, I have never done anything as difficult as adopting Liam. The biggest hurdle was trying to prove I was capable and deserved to become a candidate to adopt, and in the past, I used to obtain an objection letter from Ireland.”

The miracle finally happened in June 2021, Dang Son with the new name Liam, was officially adopted by his father John Hennigan, and started a happier, more loving, and brighter life.

It’s not usual when you hear of a foreigner adopting a child born with facial deformities. But it happened and sent the message to people to keep believing in the miracles in this life. Maybe you will be the one to make the change, who creates heart-touching stories when you never stop loving.

The mother in a wheelchair

In the last surgical mission of 2021, before the covid wave caused provinces and cities to apply social distancing and lockdown measures, there was a mother with a great strength who traveled from far distance to bring her child to the mission.

Y Chinh lives with her son in Diek Not village, a small village of the Ca Dong people, in Ngoc Tem commune, Kon Plong district – a remote mountainous region of Kon Tum province, bordering Quang Ngai. Surely everyone remembers the historic flood at the end of 2020. Ngoc Tem commune was the heavily affected locality, one of the places suffered the most serious landslides among dozens of landslides on the Truong Son Dong route.

The storm passed, the road was repaired, and Operation Smile Vietnam’s program came to Quang Ngai. Even though she has to use a wheelchair, Ms. Y Chinh decided to take her 17-month-old son, A Quoc Bao, to Quang Ngai Obstetrics and Children’s Hospital, hoping the doctors could heal his lips.

The image of a mother in a wheelchair bringing her child, checking all the procedures, taking care of her baby, and taking him into the operating room are truly touching and unforgettable for Operation Smile’s volunteer team. The surgery was forty minutes long, also forty minutes full of hope but a lot of anxiety for the mother when she put all her hopes behind the operating room door. Bao’s mother had never gone that far before because his mother’s legs were not as normal, and the family lives among  the rolling hills and mountains making traveling even much more difficult. And more than anyone else, a mother understands that a physical defect, no matter how small, will make her child’s future more difficult and bumpy like what she had to go through. More than anything, Ms. Y Chinh just wanted Bao to be able to eat normally, go to class confidently, and grow up with the dream of overcoming the high mountains of her hometown, something his mother had never dared to dream of.

For Ms. Y Chinh, the journey to find her child’s smile is probably the greatest journey in her life. Luckily, she and her son went through that journey with the support of doctors, volunteers, and the whole community. We can only describe that journey with one word – LOVE!

Parents’ treasure!

The happiness of Kim Thuy’s family after being refused surgery twice

Mr. Hung’s daughter from Tien Giang had a cleft lip on one side. He works as a carpenter, and his wife runs a small, simple coffee shop. His family had to endure a lot to survive during the Covid epidemic. Luckily, a cousin introduced Operation Smile and registered Kim Thuy, their tiny 1-year-old daughter. The day the couple received a phone call for a medical appointment, they cried tears of joy. But soon after their happiness is followed by the worry about the money to cover the cost of their child’s lip treatment, forcing them to pawn their motorbike – the most valuable tool to make a living.

“Why you have to pawn your motorbike while this surgery is totally free?”

He laughed and shook his head: “Oh my god, to come up here for free surgery, I also have to prepare money to spend in Saigon. But I don’t have money to buy a bus ticket to get here, and money to eat and stay for a few days. So I pawned the motorbike so I could have money to take her up here for the screening.”

3 hours on the bus, 2 hours waiting to complete the application, the whole family’s effort traveling long distances, the waiting time, the risk of pawning the motorbike but the results were not as expected. Thuy had high white blood cell count so she didn’t qualify for the surgery. They had to make another appointment next week to do the test again. So the family need to made another trip to Saigon. The tiny baby just weighing 7 kg and 60 cm height continued testing but she was too young and afraid of the needle pain, so the medical staff had to be very careful to take her blood. The results were still the same, her white blood cell count is still not stable enough for the surgery. The family got back again with disappointment. By the third time, the white blood cell count was high, but after thorough rounds of testing, echocardiography and pediatric examination, the baby has been accepted for the surgery.

When the surgery was scheduled for Kim Thuy, Ms. Quyen – her mother – tried to take care of her more carefully so that she would be healthy to face the difficulties ahead. On the day of surgery, the couple was extremely worried, but could only stay outside the operating room. During a long day, when Thuy woke up, her parents finally released when seeing their child’s new face. They know that all their efforts were well paid then. When Thuy got back for a follow-up examination a week after surgery, her wound was gradually recovering extremely well. This is probably the greatest joy in 2022 before entering the new year for Kim Thuy’s family. Thuy’s Smile is now the greatest treasure that the parents hold in hands.

Khiem’s smile – Parents’ dream comes true!

Khiem is a boy from Hai Phong, born in a family with parents who love him so much. When he was just born, his mother was extremely devastated when she saw her child was not as healthy as other children. Khiem had a cleft lip that making it extremely difficult for him to eat and drink milk. His parents were endlessly worried about what their child would be like, how to treat him, what he would look like when he grow up, how people would discriminate against him… Luckily, Khiem’s parents learned about Operation Smile’s surgical misision, right at the time when the medical experts and donors from the United States came to work in Hanoi. Knowing this, his parents decided to take him to the hospital in time for the screening. The 45 minutes Khiem spent in the operating room is also 45 minutes for parents sitting still, both afraid of their child’s pain and looking forward to a successful surgery. After the surgery, Khiem’s ​​parents were truly overwhelmed with happiness. They kept looking at the beautiful face and smile of their child who has just been healed and is now a very handsome Khiem.

 

Khiem’s ​​story is also one of tens of thousands of stories of children and parents who desperated when their child was born with a facial deformity, until the child received surgery with good quality medical treatment. At Operation Smile, with each child healed, we know that we have an additional motivation to continue the journey of smiles for Vietnamese children.

So’s story -Thank you for believing us!

Cu Thi So is a H’Mong child born with a cleft lip and palate, living in a remote area of Lao Cai province. In 2020, with the help of Teacher Quyet, So was fortunate to meet Operation Smile and receive free surgery to fix her cleft lip. However, So still needed to treat her cleft palate to improve her daily life and communication.

 

Two years later, thanks to the care and persuasion of Teacher Quyet and Tien Lam from Operation Smile team, So’s family agreed to bring her to Hanoi to continue the surgical process. However, because both So and her father were infected with Covid-19, they had to return to Lao Cai, carrying many worries and frustrations. A year later, in March 2023, Operation Smile organized the medical program in Hanoi. Coincidentally, before the screening day, So’s case were known and supported by Operation Smile’s supporters to bring them to Hanoi. Therefore, So’s family agreed to let her sign up for the final surgery.

 

On the way to bus station to go back home, So’s father choked with happiness and held Lam’s hand tightly as a way to express gratitude. The joy of So’s father, of the Operation Smile team, the doctors, and nurses who helped treat on her, and above all, all came from the joy of everyone working together to achieve a miraculous thing: bringing NORMALCY to So.